“The French are true romantics. They feel the only difference between a man of forty and one of seventy is thirty years of experience.” – Maurice Chevalier
While Mr. Chevalier may or may not be accurate in his assessment of female differences in a thirty-year span, it is nonetheless thought-provoking. It is an inevitable fact that time brings about experience. When we’re born, we see the light for the first time; when we first begin learning, our minds begin evolving; when we arrive at mid-life, we begin to appreciate its finite nature…and on, and on.
Are there some things that every woman “should” experience by age 40?
Of course, this is a highly subjective proposition.
However, we – at times, tongue-in-cheek – say that this milestone brings about, at the least, a common set of experiences shared by woman that reach age 40.
Here, we take a look at 40 things every woman “should” or may have experienced after four decades of life on this planet.
WITHOUT FURTHER DELAY, 40 THINGS EVERY WOMAN “SHOULD HAVE” BY AGE 40:
1. Had such an emotionally-powerful kiss that it will continually remind you of the word “passion.”
2. Had a lover that knew how, when and where to “touch” you in a way that left you in awe and anticipation.
3. An understanding of your family’s medical history (i.e., health genetics) that enables you to take appropriate steps to preserve your well-being.
4. Knowledge of how to confront a friend or someone else close to you without losing self-control.
5. A young child, not your own, that has looked to you for support, compassion, and/or guidance.
6. A place you can call “your own” – one that allows you to remain in comfortable silence with your thoughts.
7. Knowledge of how to cook at least one relatively complicated dish – to at least “acceptable” quality.
8. Having at least one good friend that, inevitably, makes you laugh…
9. And at least one friend that, nonjudgmentally, lets you ball your eyes out.
10. Something too expensive that you bought, not out of impulse, but because you actually deserved it.
11. Had a dream or vision of yourself so extraordinary that it actually scared you.
12. A past experience so enamoring that you’ll gladly retell it in your late years.
13. The realization that old age is inevitable, and you must have a way of funding it.
14. An emotional scar, while deeply entrenched via pain, has strengthened your character.
15. An outfit so lovely that you’d unabashedly wear it in front of anyone, at any time.
16. A routine activity that you do for you, and you alone.
17. Knowing that while your parents made mistakes, they often did the best they could with what they had.
18. Memories that make you wince; ones that help you appreciate the ones that make you gleeful.
19. Kept a journal or personal record of your deepest thoughts and feelings.